"may as well have undressed them and put them in bed." That is degrading to us, and also presumptive of having more control and power in life than you really do
That statement was directed to me alone. No one else, as it fit my situation, please don't twist my words.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK