My motto is "just do it". Unless there is an active affair going on, of course.

I am slightly conflicted about it, but to me it seems worth the risk of 'being used' to keep some sort of connection going.

That's just my point of view.

Hang in there 7YI.

M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence