We have done a lot of counselling, some helpful, most not.
He is again (still) considering leaving, and I feel as though I canèt ask for anything (you know about the stupid keyboard, rightÉ)
What I have been considering is asking him if he thinks we can continue like this and if he says no, then asking him what he is willing to do (and it can be very small) to start to make things better.
I read your posts about the money conversations, and know that for us too, it is quite often how I ask more than what I am saying. I would love to have this conversation with my H in a more positive way, but given that I start crying if I even think about the current situation, I have no idea how to accomplish that.
Or am I just doing something because I canèt stand the lack of movement, even if I end up pushing things in a way I donèt want to goÉ
