If I decide to go he wants me to go first and get settled (find a job and somewhere to live) Then D could go. I know he wants her to be taken care of as do I.
The EA ended some time ago and it was very short. I told him that even though thats over he cannot be friends with her. It's not fair that he talks to her or they have lunch. If he wants a friendship with me he cannot have one with her. I told him life was about choices and this is a choice...me or her. He chose me. I don't give a rats ar*e how he feels about it because he's hurt me and he knows it.
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I seems odd that he would agree to end an EA one minute and talk about the two of you living in different countries the next. Does he seem very confused to you?
The 2 topics came almost 45 minutes apart. He brought up the living situation first and then about 45 minutes later I told him what I needed from him in regards to "her". He is somewhat confused but not about "her". Tells me he wants to do the right thing and this for now is right. I think he feels and has felt helpless for some time in regards to out M/R and now he has some control.
Jen
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Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
