My only concern is that Ian is in way over his head and I don't feel that I am at liberty to share certain things that he and I spoke about in private.
I don't know how anyone can try to offer Ian any legitimate support if they are missing pieces of his story but it's his prerogative to withhold things he isn't ready to share.
However, he will have to pick his way through what has been said to him and figure out what applies and what doesn't.
Seems kind of a waste of time but it ain't my story.
