(((Michelle))) you have great strength. I am amazed at how well you have handled all of this...I think I would have been on the floor. Just breath, and remember that this doesn't have anything to do with you. You have done everything really well, and maybe that is scaring him a bit. If you are not ready to meet up with him, don't worry about it. Divorces don't happen overnight, and I am not sure what the law is in CA, but in TX it takes at least 60 days before an uncontested divorce is final. Then the person who files has to go to court, so if he is going to be deployed, I am not sure it would come to that.
Keep your chin up, you are doing fabulous!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
