He's not open to mc based on the idea that I won't change, I won't do what the counselor suggests, etc. He's basing that on...well what I told him last week that nothing will change (stupidstupidstupid). And, the fact that our previous mc (before the sep) gave us a handout of "Fair Fighting Rules"...and I didn't follow the rules.
In my email to him, I did change that last paragraph and state that I will do what the mc suggests.
Apologies is another of his longstanding issues with me. I don't apologize well, I don't do it on my own unless asked...I have too much stubborn pride. I really think that right now, it would come across as "you're only doing this because I told you I'm done. Too late."
My email also gave an apology, but again, he thinks it's too late.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
