I was sitting around, thinking about your sitch. You and I have some similar in-law dynamics. I prayed and came up with this answer for my dilemma:
I will send the in-laws my apology letter (I miss them and truly am responsible for a lot of this). It could somehow not be well received, but so what. From what I hear, they are already mad at me. When I send it, I will give W a heads-up about the letter and SINCERELY explain, "I needed to do this even though it might not be received well. But this means a lot to me to do this. It's from the heart. I need to heal and move forward. This is for me and, hopefully for your parents, who fed me and took care of me all those years. They deserve the chance to heal too. I love them. They made you."
That's it, in a nut shell (now I'm thinking of Austin Powers). Thoughts?
Last edited by Flipper; 06/10/0806:51 PM.
Me: 46 Second Marriage WAW: 38 First Marriage Separated: Dec. 2007 W Filed for D: Feb. 2008 For more hope, click: http://rejoiceministries.org/
