I am not sure how to answer this one, because I think if my H asked for sex, I would probably do it. Oh heck, no probably, there, I would. But my H has an ED problem, so even when I did bring the issue up once, he didn't speak to me for a week, and then we had a huge blowout. We are tentatively still recovering from that.
Of course, for me it would be different, I think, than it would for him. I have found that, in my personal experience, I enjoy sex more with the person I am in love with, so I know it would be an emotional connection, and frankly, I miss just touching him.
I don't suppose that is much help, but I am not sure what the answer to that one is!
(((Chris)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..