Yes. You need to go dark on him. Especially for Father's Day. I doubt you could be as mean and cold to him on Father's Day as he was to you on Mother's Day. But you need to give it a try. You have got to give him the coldness he asks for. He will destroy you if you don't.
He's coming over tonight to do some things to the house to get it market ready.
What do I do? The kids are with him tomorrow night, I have a school board meeting on Thursday that I need to attend and he'll be watching the kids.
Should I take the kids to a movie? I don't want to be apart from them tonight. Or do I leave to do something and leave him with the kids? They'd probably want to play with him, but he'll have work to do.
Or do I stay and just do my thing? Act totally happy, work on my own house projects?
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
