yes, my self-esteem has gone down some...but I'm working on that.
I did file CS last August and since the children were conceived in another state, the case had to cross state lines. Right now I am waiting on whether any of the addresses will come back positive to prove that he gets mail somewhere.
I'm confident that it will soon. I just have to be patient.
Is there anything I can do? I've been reading about this thing about going dark. Ok, I am going dark but not by choice!
Do I remain dark anyway? We live thousands of miles away from each other now and I figured if he was concerned about me and especially our children, then he would go to the ends of the earth and try to find us.