Is it snooping when it's a joint checking account????
Yeah it is unfortunately, at least when you go on online right away to see what the truth is. I agree the lie does hurt quite a bit and it can play demons on your mind.
I just want you to know that I am not judging you, I have done the same thing, I'm just trying to give his perspective.
If you have the means then retail therapy always help! Little lie or not, if your H is having fun then you should allow yourself to have fun as well.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning