what works with one kid wont' work with the other I've found out. The spanking issue is all too common, usually it is the dad who is more tough, but he actually sees that time out work out.

Above the messy house/car the real issue here is respect, she respecting his opinion he respecting her as his wife, mother of the kids, that is something that is talked during MC. As far as I know, she did acknowledge to him her shortcomings, I dont' see why she has to apologize any further.

Is he not open to MC anymore?


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.