first of all, dont' try to make sense out of anything he is/isnt' doing, nothing will make sense, nothing will fit into neat little boxes for you to understand. A well man doesn't leave a wife with 2 small children to go fool around, it doesn't make sense, so don't waste time in thinking about why he is doing it, and dont you be blaming yourself either, I know when it happened to me my self-esteem took a nose dive. It is not you nor how the ow compares to you, it is him trying to escape reality and going to la-la land where there are no diaper changes/bills to worry about.
He cashed a check that was yours and you still thought about helping to pay for his car note? hon, let him hang, what a low life!
I give you huge kudos for not answering ow, good on you, never talk to her, all you will get is lies and hurt from her. Can't you file for child support? in my state a sheriff goes to serve the dead beat if he doesnt' respond to the CS letter he is sent. You need to protect yourself and your children while he has his head up his butt.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
