Well Sunny, you shamed me into posting an update!

Kalni,
You have to also know that the kids will be affected in any case. You have to weight the impact of your unhappiness and exhaustion on them as well as the impact of having divorced parents. At some point, staying together "for the sake of the kids" can actually be worse than getting D'ed.

SD

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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