Val, I agree with Jack. Don't let your mind jump to conclusions.

I hate when people (not here) say to me "I bet you the ow is going to end up pregnant so she can lock your H into a relationship."



How in the world does that help me? It doesn't, it just adds to my anxiety.

We have to tune these people out.

Your friend shouldn't be telling you something that she doesn't know for a fact.

p.s. I had a dog that died and my other dog didn't eat for a week after either. Just give her lots of hugs and kisses and special treats. Eventually she'll start to come around.


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009