The thing with this sitch is that my sister hadn't gotten home before I went to bed at 11 so I was worried about her and so I turned the ringer on. ANd when the call rang in at 2, it woke my sis and nephew up too and my neph started crying cuz he thought something happened to his dad. SO it was just bad timing all around. I didn't answer and it went to vmail, and had a chat w/ the gal.
And since right now I can't justify a second phone, I usually have mine on vibrate... I want to hear it if something happens to the girls when they are with their dad.
Julie, there's a free voicemail dealio out there. Can't remember its name right now. Gives you a different phone number to use for it. If/when I run across it, I'll send you the info.
I'm glad you recognize you need to set boundaries. Honestly, that's another one of those "gifts" of this whole situation to come my way.
It sounds like you're doing great--glad to hear it!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
Hey LNF... thanks for checking in on me... been a little busy. And the kids have been having meltdown after meltdown. Poor babies are struggling right now with the D. D7 was talking to my sis last night (the one living with me) and told her she feels like she should be able to do 'something' to make things all better and get us back together. She also said she missed her dad but he's with his Girlfriend... Poor baby.
I'm still doing good on the health plan. Been running and have increased my distance to 2.5-3.5 miles 2-3 times per week. I just got the percentages w/ 6 weeks left... I am at 6.6% and the next closest is at 3.4% so I'm in good shape!!
hey there, nice to hear from you! huge hugs to the girls))))))))))))) my prayers her way. That's the part that really infuriates me,and when I start to feel too sorry for stbx I remember my kids faces and wonder "who would leave these wonderful kids behind?"
Only and idiot.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
She also said she missed her dad but he's with his Girlfriend... Poor baby.