Jen,

Excellent!!!!!!! That was huge, it shows that your friendship means a lot to him, particularly when you are coming from a position of little leverage (him wanting a D, you wanting it to work). I am very happy for you. Don't be surprised if he gets a little down or even tries to contact her a little bit. These EAs can be very hard to let go of.....been there done that.

Now you know what you need to do, be his best friend without being clingy and no R talks. This sounds like the blow out you were talking about couldn't have been too bad, I was worried a little bit.


TwinDad
Me 39, W 36, M 11
W - MLC, WAW????
2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old
Start of the Long and Bumpy Road.....
On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning