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go enjoy yourself - you've earned it, and you deserve it.


Ian,

There is absolutely nothing wrong with having fun or with going out on an occasional date.

I do not want to come across as holier than thou...

Perhaps it is your attitude of self entitlement and selfishness that gets to me.

the...now it's your turn to have fun...you deserve it!!

You just had your Divorce finalized and you already in a relationship with someone.

She will be the one that gets hurt.

Can you not just have time to be Ian and be by yourself and learn how to live life without having a significant other in the picture?

You have been through a tremendous ordeal.

Take time for you.

Learn how to breathe again.

No pun intended...but when you are trying to juggle as many things as you are trying to do, eventually you will lose your balls.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.