PS, It sounds like you married someone who has a bias towards psychiatric problems. I've met people with psychiatric problems who get no support from their families--it's taboo for them.
He needs to stay out of the way, and not interfere in the good work you're trying to do.
CL
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"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."