What I don't get and what I'll never understand is how my H can think that a woman who stays out until all hours of the morning doing what she's doing while her children are all at home is a good person. OW's H has said a few times that he's woken up at 2:00, 3:00 am because one of their kids is upset or crying for their mom and she's not there. He said at one time that his kids are dying for their mom to be a bigger part of their lives and to give them more attention & time.
Same thing in my sitch, too. They would be out late at night or even stay in hotels all night and weekend trips before H moved out! And when the OW was home with the kids she was texting my H! But he thinks she is better than me b/c she has a full-time job and I don't! Do you think they will ever realize that's horrible (like we do)??? Karen