lwb- No, what H does now does not reduce me to a sobbing mess. I did have a few tears come out last night but it was mostly from thinking about D4. Her life is about to be turned upside down and she has no idea what's coming. That part still makes me cry.
What I don't get and what I'll never understand is how my H can think that a woman who stays out until all hours of the morning doing what she's doing while her children are all at home is a good person. OW's H has said a few times that he's woken up at 2:00, 3:00 am because one of their kids is upset or crying for their mom and she's not there. He said at one time that his kids are dying for their mom to be a bigger part of their lives and to give them more attention & time. Then, this woman, who thinks that my H is going to provide her with a loving, happy home thinks it's okay that he's out until all hours of the morning away from his own child! How can that at all make sense to anyone?? It makes me so angry.
Karen, I'm ready for some relief.
SueS
Last edited by SueS; 06/10/0803:37 PM.
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day