I would avoid talking to that friend about it if you can. I am sure she means well and thinks getting out entirely would be easier on you, but like you said, she can't truly understand your sitch since she has not gone through it herself. Plus, I'd rather have a husband who admits he is confused than the one I have who is so matter of fact and sure of his decision these days. Your coffee description sounds good and I don't even drink coffee!


Me 32/H 32
M 3yrs/T 8 yrs
0 kids and 1 dog
Bomb 5/15/08 - wants to end it to pursue OW
Seeing OW and moving out 7/08