(So this leads into her saying "D11 blames me for 'everything' that is going on and 'its hard on me' I am trying to work through this, just takes time, it's not fair, who knows what will happen, might be too late by then". Before I could even answer she sent this text..."don't answer I'm going to bed")
All above is what W said through about 2 hours of texting. D11, is upset with her for starting to smoke again and is blaming her for the sitch that we are in. She seems in great turmoil by her messages. Her texts throughout the night IMO were carrying an air about them that I can't put my finger on. Like she is wanting me to do or say something to make it right. Throughout her texts she would keep referring to feeling like she was 'nuts' or 'losing her mind'. I know I am not trying to read into any of this just has ME PERPLEXED! A whole day of communication with emails & texting and then so far today nothing.
Like I said I just kept validating where I could, giving her kudos for doing things on her own without being sappy about it. I offered no advice to her would just try and change the subject so as not to go down a cheeseless tunnel.
