Thank you Addie and Summerd.

I appears that the A can help me in the D legally. I am focusing on:

1. My Kids - and getting the best custody deal that I can.
2. The Legal Aspects of the D.
3. My Health - trying to take my meds, eat, etc.

I am being very dim/dark with my W. I do not want to stay married to her anymore. I am trying focus on getting the best D deal that I can - as soon as I can. I feel much better when she is not around. I just wish that she would spend some time with the kids.

Everyone told me that my W was having an A. My Lawyer, My Marriage Counselor, My Family and My Pastor all told me that she was based on her behaviour but I would not believe it. Now I know.

At this point I am in D Accelerating not D Busting.