Thank you Jeff. I'm either very special, very stubborn or very stupid. It could be a mix of all three.
AMen! I need to read through your whole sitch, but just reading your last couple pages, I see we sound so much alike. Even our ages, kids ages etc. It's crazy. And I hear you. If one more person tells me "kids are resilient" I think I'm seriously going to go postal!
I have no advice because I'm an emotional mess like you. My H is set to move out on Monday, and I too hear the "there's time until it's final. Heck, I think I've said it on here to others.", yet like you, I feel it's just one more step on the way to D.
Hang in there. It's all we can do.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
