Thanks Karen :o) It irked me because he barely talked at all after his breakdown email and it was all me reassuring him that his parents won't hate him, that I will be okay when he leaves and am still sad (it bothered him tat i did not seem that upset). Ugh! So today he says our talked helped and he is doing well - after a 14 hour date with his OW yesterday I guess he would be!
I caved and emailed back about how hard it is knowing someone else has his heart, how hard it will be to stay friends after he leaves and how i am torn between loyalty to him and moving on. I know, I know - I should not have sent it! He'll be home within an hour and who knows if he will say anything since he didn't email me back. I should not have sent it, I just caved and I almost felt I had been too reassuring when we talked last night and he was feeling a little too good about how smoothly this was going.
I'm sure you realize it, but please don't spend any more time reassuring your H that everything is OK and trying to make him feel better. Let him feel guilty and horrible--he should!!!
And I know you won't email him again about someone else having his heart, etc. Again I think that makes him feel better, etc.
Have you gotten a copy of DR yet? Also, what are you doing to GAL? That really helped me a lot getting through a lot of tough times, being with friends, having fun, and focusing on yourself. I hope you will try to do that! I hope I didn't hurt your feelings with this email, I am usually a big marshmallow, and hope I don't sound too mean today! Karen
Karen
