You sound so "together" and in control. I am impressed. The part about him not deciding sounds so familiar to me. I was thinking that the way things are going I may have to file to get a closure in my sitch. I don't think I am ready for that yet but I have been thinking about it trying to recognise the signs...
Then he calls our kids, I listen to him talking to them and I feel I can't do it to THEM... I am loosing my strength though, I can tell. Take care, thanks for your help, xxxKalni