There is if you have a schedule set with your daughter. Cut W off from everything. She is the one who chose to leave, let her go and dont rescue her when she needs help. If you have to, find a third party where you can drop D off and wont have to face W. I have been following along a bit, but kinda forgot some of the details.
When my W would come over and get on the computer, I was curious as to what was going on and would tell myself "no, im not going to look". W was not smart enough to log off and I found stuff I didnt want to see. Even told C about this and she kinda supported me in my sitch where W had D put on hold and had an idea of the lifestyle she was living so I wanted answers. L said yea, print that stuff off. So yea its not cool, but you just want to know but not do it either.
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M-31 W-28 S7 D2.5 T 8, M 4 W filed 2-14-08 D on hold 3/08 D off hold 5/08 D to be final on/by Nov 08 Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful