So H sent me an email and he sounded like he had cooled down quite a bit; maybe the OW calmed him down or something. He said it's great I'm going out and if I want to stay out all night he'll stay with the kids, and enjoys being with the kids when I'm out. He's going to try to get his own place soon too so I'll have more freedom. And gave me some info on a job fair in my town this week. (I guess I'll be waiting on the divorce papers to come in soon too.) I guess he thinks I'm like him, but I really don't feel the need for all-night dates while I"m still married!!! Karen
Karen