I am sorry for your sitch. Have read most of it and I understand why you are confussed. WAW do the stangest things and most of the time we LBS read way too much into their actions. I have a hard time detaching also, but until you do everything she says and does you will question and drive yourself crazy. You cannot control her actions only your own. If there is OM accusing her of this will only make him more attactive and she will want to be with him more. Keep up with GAL and having fun with you kids. Remember DB is to make you a better person and if you get your wife back that is a bonus.
