Forestt We are in similar sitchs. my wife did the same thing to me for the last several years about things. I thought she was nagging, but in reality she was communicating to me about stuff that needed to be changed. Its frustrating now because we get it, and we can look back and see what we lost by not truly listening to them. And it's very painful. And we want to fix it right NOW and know we can be different. But our WAWs are afraid that we really will fall back into our old habits.But, as many people say on here...patience is key, and time is really on our side. Even when it appears to be moving like molasses in the middle of winter. Keep making yourself better....I truly believe that the WAS really do want to see the changes but are afraid to recommit so that we don't fall back into the same old trap!
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
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