IMO, let him have what he wants. He's viewing this as a battle with you, not as the dissolving of a life. He feels he has to win this battle. Let him. He's a shattered man and no amount of arguing with him about D or S is going to help that. He'll only dig his heels in deeper.
I'm sorry he is being such a major a$$munch. He's very unhappy and I think he's realizing that the OW, deployment, job, school.....none of them mean anything to him. He thinks he's ridding himself of the last piece of his life that may be causing his unhappiness....his M. He has to find out the hard way that you are not his problem either, he is.
I'm thinking of you Michelle.
Take care of you today.
Ali - seriously......you'll sneak tea in just about anywhere won't you?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
