Thanks for reminding me and propping me up. I'm so going to DB the pants off him on Friday - and I will be thinking of you while I'm doing it!
So I hadn't heard from H over the weekend. And I was really starting to think he was going to back out of it. But I decided that I would just ring him and tell him how much fun the club is and how cool the band is and what a great night we are going to have (180 for me - instead of being defensive that really he doesnt want to go). We just had a great phone conversation. I managed to be happy and friendly the whole way through. We laughed. He sounded keen about Friday night. I told him part of a juicy story, and told him I would tell him the rest when i see him Friday night. I think its going to be good.
I have prepared neutral topics of conversation (its so amazing how many topics lead to R talks). So I've got 3 sport questions to ask him to get me out of a conversation heading towards a R conversation if needed. Any other suggestions are appreciated.
What I wonder is: Does he think that he could have me back whenever he wants? And therefore I'm less appealing? Should I not be worried about that at this stage? Is there anything i can do to send the message - I'm hot, and fun to be with, but I'm out of reach?? I kind of feel like: How many times do I have to get rejected before I get the message that its over?
