Dom, I'm not sure there's advice I can give you because you are like the king in my eyes. You're the wise man on top of the mountain.
But, I don't think any girl that you'll bring home from a bar would be OK to just lay next to you. You certainly won't feel that "affection" even if she just sleeps next to you. And, if it goes further, you'll can bet you'll get some really nice form of STD. Women that go home with men they meet in bars are likely in the habit of it, you know? Same with a massage parlour. Some escort services make their girls get monthly testing, but really is that where you want to put your money? How about some healthy porn??
Don't do something that you can't erase.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
