I have finally totally detached and I am having the greatest time of my life. One of my good buddies said I was like Socrates just coming out of his cave for the first time and noticing the sunshine, flowers and all the beautiful things in life. I can't believe what a tunnel I was in for so long. My Psyc said I looked like someone who just had a 1000 pounds lifed from his shoulders.
I move into my new house mid June and my kids are very excited about it.
Good for you; keep walking in that direction. The change one feels is remarkable, isn't it? It's a common theme, but many people never make it to this stage. They remain trapped in anger and despair for a long, long time. Life is a lot better when you learn to let go of those emotions. We have to go through that phase, but we also have to come out of it.
Hi Tree! Good to hear from you. I'm so pleased that you are having the greatest time of your life! Enjoy life! I know that feeling, when life has sucked for so long, its great to not feel terrible all the time! You are a good man and you are going to have a great life!