I havent spoken to my WAS for almost 3 weeks now. Had a friendly birthday text from him on 29th May-didnt answer it- since then silence.Am proud of myself that Im not pursuing him or insisting on regular contact as I did before. Weve been married 28 years seperated 1.Current situation is that we reached divorce nisi but before final absolute he asked for a delay. He says he is confused-loves me but isnt sure we could live as man and wife.There is an OW in the picture but he lives alone.Its been a terrible 12 months I had a minor breakdown but am getting stronger by the day.I think he is afraid to contact now because the last time I saw him I lost it and said I couldnt take the uncertainty any more. He said he would see his counsellor and asked for a month more. Month is now up. He will be surprised I know that I havent called him (a littlt 180 for me!) but not sure what to do next,problem is I finish work in July and need financial support from him.Can afford to wait a bit longer. But I know things will change when we have to discuss finance,especially if soliciters are involved. I really want to save this marriage- I am convinced he would regret a divorce.Has anyone been in a similar place? Awful to have to end the marriage because of money.I know he wants to remain in contact-even when things were awful and the divorce was days away he was saying " are we going to still see each other?".Help- advice please1
M-28YRS S-1YR BOMB-MAY 07 DECREE NISI-OCT 07 MARRIAGE ON HOLD!
