When you are going to T without your spouse it is probably best to focus on your own personal growth...when you get wrapped up in the "stuff" about your spouse then you are not focusing on you...perhaps that is what your T was trying to get you to do...make you "forget" your H so you could "remember" you!
I would agree that a few more sessions...without H talk would be the way to decide...my T who did MC with H and I for 3 sessions didn't see my H returning and in fact said he needed intensive T and was probably a sex addict...well perhaps a bit more T for him would have helped...but he is far from a sex addict...and he did come home...she did help me to see how taking care of ME was the most important thing to focus on...she also reassured me that my sadness was normal...I was grieving and I had a right to feel the way I did...
