Thanks Peace! that is my plan! Give him 100% control and power (make him feel that he is control)... Validate and Listen..I think he is already shocked at my behavior..nice, sweet, calm , collected, happy....i think he is expecting a wreck or anger or meanness...what a weirdo. I just get to be 100% in control of ME!
No R talks, NO ILY's...
Lots of "what do you think?" and OK, YES, etc.
shut my trap and LISTEN :-)
ill let ya know how it goes....
calmly~ Pisces
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