>> Dr. Phil always says that "kids would rather come from a broken home than live in a broken home" <<
That is such BS. You don't think a home after D isn't broken? It's only half a home!!! That's completely broken. Dr Phil needs to go back to school....
Actually parents can coexist and be great parents together. What makes you think after you divorce your H you are going to find love? And, with what you do find out there, what makes you think your life is going to be better? Like some man out there is going to fix it? If anything you are going to meet some guy on the rebound, or pick some guy with his own baggage out of desperation, and he's going to have his own problems and not be too thrilled about your kids... and chances are the kids will want to go live with dad, spend time both places and never feel completely comfortable with either.
Don't make any important decision during a time of anger. Only makes decisions when time has passed and you are calm, reasonable and have had plenty of time to think things over. Hasty decisions made when one is angry are often decsions one regrets.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
