Depressed H walked out- similar to MLC?

[peacetoday]

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What has workewr well for me this past year with H is asking questions like
what do you think?
what do you want to do?
How do you feel about that?
My H never gets too personal of course, but he seems to enjoy our conversations..I give my opinion more now than I did post bomb..then I just listened and tried to validate
but all decisions for our our Seperation, our business, his visits, his interactions with kids were all made by him
so maybe try for now to ask a question not too personal and listen then say oh so what your saying is you dont want to make a counter offer?
then let it go
My H has made very poor decisions about our business this year and maybe for the last 2-3 years..I let it all go
if he looses it, its totally on him I cant rescue him anymore
peace