oh.. and, I just took down all of our wedding pics.. I know.. kind of late for that but, I had them up in case ow happened to be over for a "visit"!
I've got a better idea....
Go get one of those sexy boudoir shots and put that one up for OW to see during one of her visits. Then, for H, get one of you with lots of cleavage and a group of attractive guys (co-workers or friends he doesn't know... guys at a bar) and put that up!!!!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
