MLC... hmmm... I don't really think so. Could be possible, I suppose? I don't know. I guess I'll have to 'read up' on this.
I don't think you're aggressive... trust me. I can be aggressive! LOL! I think you have given me some sound advice, all of you, thus far. It really helps me to get a male's perspective.
I picked up a new book today, "Stop Blaming, Start Loving!" It is very much like the DB and DR book (I have DR on my wait list at the library.) I recommend it for anyone in similar situation as me.
And of course, I know you can't fix anyone that's not willing to fix themselves... catch22.
I think you have given me some sound advice, all of you, thus far. It really helps me to get a male's perspective. 
