By the way, lwb, I feel sooo immature compared to you and the way you are handling things.
My friend, stay tuned.
1. I am not dealing with OW anymore. If anything, I will be dealing with random women who H might tell that he is either already divorced or a signature away. If I was still dealing with OW, I would have lost my mind.
2. I have not had to do anything officially yet. I have not been through paperwork, lawyers, anything like that.
3. I have not had the heartbreaking reality of missing my kids when they are with H overnight, or for long periods.