Originally Posted By: brokenhearted
But hey, thats what I've got all of you for, right! \:\)


Indeed.

I think it's really important to feel very comfortable with your IC. You might want to search for a "solution-based" therapist. I'm not sure how you find one. There might be a link somewhere on this site. I'll go look and let you know what I find.

M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence