I worry sometimes that your W is trying to alienate you as well, nocode.
I don't have the answer for you. One hand, you could be flexible and switch things around, but one the other hand, why should YOU be flexible when she is the exact opposite. I just don't know, nocode. Am I right that it would give you the opportunity to see them during the long time W has them? At this point in my life, I can't imagine not seeing my girls for even a day, but you are in this a bit deeper with the separation stuff. I worry she is using S7's "special needs" when it works for her, but uses it against you. This would prove he could tolerate a bit more change up.
Thinking of you. Tough decisions. Try (ugh) to make them for your son's benefit, not with your W's probable reasons for wanting the change.
