HELP! What do you do when your ready to give up?

[Rusty]

I do have a fantastic dress! Thanks for asking - and I am looking gorgeous. Just to brag a bit - I have lost about 25# for this wedding - I ate to forget my S! But I will look fabulous. And my future DIL is fantastic - we are very close, so this is a really joyous day! She and I just did the seating for the reception - what a chore! But it will be a great day.
BTW - in reading the Bitches book - I realized that when I was dating my H and throughout most of our marriage - I really was doing all that was listed in that book! But when he had an EA with someone at work, I totally changed. I wanted him and begged him to stay, and he begged me not to leave. And from that point on, the "hand" (as they said in Seinfeld) totally changed and I was the on pursuing him and trying to constantly please. Weird.