I know he was angry when I asked him to sign and notarize the children's passports so I could go live w/my parents and get help w/the kids...NOT to take them away from him. He was angry at first wanting me to sign divorce papers uncontested then sign the passport forms....then he was alright with it but made up excuses not being able to pay for the documents to be notarized.

The very last time I spoke with him was late Dec. 07 after his gf text msgd me...he defended her of course then I told him he should've asked me for help to pay his car note instead of being behind 4-5 mos...

So now he hasn't been trying to contact us. His mom and bro changed their number...making b/c they don't want to get involved esp. w/child support...but I never harassed them for anything. The only time I called his bro was to tell his bro my address (again) and # so the next time he wanted to file he would at least have the address.

I plan on going back to the state where he lives in Oct.

Should I let his side of the family know we are there?