You may be right SD, I'm not holding my breath that there's a decision coming down the pike anytime soon!
There was a lot of interaction this weekend with last Little League game, etc.
He went to great lengths to hide his visits w/OW, which I guess is a positive.
So, I guess we're both pretending she's not in the picture.
I haven't been going with them for dinners for a while now, although he still asks me to come along.
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Ahhh, but that's the beauty of MLC. You CAN'T make a decision.
I know I could force a conclusion, but don't think it has any real value in it, except I would have an answer & it would likely be one that I wouldn't like. Pressure doesn't work with him (anyone, probably), & short of filing, there aren't many actions I can think of that would get me closer to my goals.
I don't ask any questions, which comes in handy for not having to hear, "I don't know what to do, I don't know what to do."
So, I'm sticking with attracting him & doing my best to keep happy & relaxed.
There are almost daily stomach twisters to work thru though. Saturday it was trying to overlook his overnight bag in his car with the clothes he had on the day before. Today was running into a mutual friend telling me H called him a couple of weeks ago regarding a house he had for sale.
So SD, it looks like you're still in a holding pattern! Has anything changed lately at all?
I'm out of a computer tonight & part of tomorrow, but I'll pop over to your thread when I get back.
