The first thing that hit me, was that when you explained what was going on at 'your' home, he changed the subject to his own problems. So he's definitely in the 'me' stage pretty darn deep. And yes...I think he should have been more gentlemanly (sp) and offered to take care of the A/C problem himself, especially since his kids are in the house and suffering in the heat themselves.

So he watched a tree fall...whoop de doo.

Sorry, but something about this conversation with him is really rubbing me the wrong way. Can't quite put my finger on it, but I think it might be because his reaction is almost a mirror image of what my xhs was when he was living with his mummy and I was still in the house trying to manage all the maintenance myself. Even if he knew something needed doing, he never offered..and I had too much pride to ask...so guess who ended up doing it all.

I better stop babbling on...can you tell I'm not happy with your H??? LOL

The remark about financial stability...please pay attention to how it made you feel when he said it. Enuf said from me. Go with what your instinct is saying to you...it's hardly ever wrong.

If it makes you feel any better at all in the heat...BOTH of my window A/C where I live are out of order. Guess the apt. manager will just love me when I make the call tomorrow and complain about it...and then add that the dishwasher doesn't work either. (snicker)

Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible